Yesterday I found myself in a very uncomfortable situation. This was mainly down to my own inexperience and I am not blaming ATC at all, just wondering what others would have done in the same situation.
I took off from Navan and once airborne I called Dublin north control to activate a flight plan to EINC. They asked me which route I wanted and I told them I would enter the zone at Skerries and fly the "Lambay Transit" (this was me trying to be helpful, but probably misguided).
I was told to stand by and then a couple of minutes later I was asked if I could fly the route at 500 feet

I was cleared to fly over the coast at Skerries and report approaching Lambay Island, not above 1000 feet.
Then the instruction was slightly amended and I was told to pass Lambay to the east before turning south. So far so good - this was making for a very scenic flight with close-up views of Skerries islands and Lambay Island.
I reported off the eastern tip of Lambay and then turned "south" towards Howth. I will admit I took a slightly "creative" interpretation of "south" as I was nervous about being so far out to sea and so my heading was more like 200. The airline traffic was passing overhead at around 2000'.
I was sharply instructed to turn back to a southerly heading, then to make a left-hand orbit and switch to Dublin approach frequency. Dub approach told me to turn onto an easterly(!) heading. I fully understand they were trying to maintain separation, but I was very unhappy to be flying out to sea at 1000'. After flying 3 miles east, I was allowed to resume a southerly heading. By this time, I was 5 miles from the nearest land, with a glide distance of less than 1 mile. I don't know if sheer willpower can keep an engine running, but I was giving it all I had. Never were FREDA checks carried out with such frequency and concentration! I made a call to say that I would like to be allowed to climb or fly closer to land at the earliest opportunity.
After passing Howth I was instructed to route directly across the bay to Killiney. It was a huge relief to approach Dalkey Island and know that if necessary I would be able to ditch adjacent to land.
On the return trip from EINC, I specifically asked to be routed over land, and was routed at 2000 feet Killiney - Pigeonhouse - along the Liffey to Weston - Maynooth and north out of the zone.
What would other, more experienced people have done in this situation? Or would you have avoided getting into this situation in the first place? Or would you have been less anxious than I was about flying low over water?